In society, whether at school as a child or in the workplace as an adult, we are always asked to respect opinions different from our own under all circumstances. But what does this entail?
It is indeed possible, and even advisable, to adopt certain attitudes to show respect when faced with opinions different from our own and other life visions, ways of doing and thinking.
When faced with differing opinions, adopt a respectful approach by:
1. Actively listening to the other person: Listen to others’ viewpoints without interrupting, showing your ability to understand them.
2. Keeping cool: Avoid impulsive reactions and stay calm to foster constructive dialogue.
3. Seeking common ground: Identify elements you agree to strengthen common ground.
4. Expressing yourself clearly: Share your opinions articulately and respectfully, avoiding confrontation.
5. Accepting the diversity of opinions: Be willing to recognize that differences in opinion are natural and can enrich the discussion and even your way of thinking and acting, etc.
6. Remaining open to compromise: Explore intermediate solutions that can address the concerns of all parties.
7. Simply learning: Expand your perspective by using differences in opinion as a learning opportunity.
By cultivating respectful exchange, you promote constructive dialogue, even with differing opinions.
Thus, by applying these attitudes, you will no longer be, in a way, judging or refusing what the other person brings to you. You will fully welcome them for who they are and might even lead them to understand your vision, opinions, or ways of doing and acting, in some cases.
And if someone seems confronted with your opinions and reacts strongly, be a model of openness and understanding for that person. This will make it more likely that you will reach a compromise.
